virgoth0t:

sexual attention from men in itself isn’t a compliment at all it can be extremely demeaning but if you’ve not experienced that type of attention before bc of the whole growing up ‘ugly’ type thing it’s like extremely flattering to be wanted in that way and I think that’s a problem for a lot of girls tbh where you know someone saying they’d fuck you ~shouldn’t~ be flattering however at the same time it’s almost as if you’d be grateful someone would and the whole concept to me is just rlly rancid n gross lol