mysteryliquid:

We hear a lot that it’s wrong to speak ill of the dead. But something we don’t hear, or at least I don’t, is that death doesn’t erase the shitty things someone has done, even if they did some good things, too. If someone that has passed on hurt you, your feelings about what they did to you are still valid. Your opinion on that person is still valid. Death doesn’t magically make someone a good person.