seaside-butch:

im slightly drunk and writing this late at night BUT im so tired of the notion that butch lesbians are always the sole comforters and solid foundation rocks in relationships like sure they can be, but i’ve seen posts talking about butch women as if we never need comforting too, or that we Never get self-conscious  or have self doubts and need reassurance and strength from our partners. If you think butch lesbians are just stoic rocks that give give give and never need emotional support back then you really need to re-evaluate your view of butches