hot take: moms need to learn how to listen to and comfort their daughters without making everything about their own traumas
a classic example
daughter: hey this thing you do bothers me very much and i wish you wouldn’t do it
mom: well my parents abused me and im not even as bad as they were and i had to sit through it so you gotta sit through whatever i do to you too
Tag: mood
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i like sleeping in your bed
i like knowing what is going on inside your head
i like taking time and i like your mind and i like when your
hand is in mine
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